HELP!!!! Pisces male broke this Sag girl's heart

topic posted Fri, September 1, 2006 - 3:49 PM by  Lisa
I have been seeing a Pisces (if that's what you want to call it) for 3 months. We have this weird connection. Its almost like we're twins. I really did consider him my soulmate. He would answer my questions with riddles. I never really knew his true feelings. He could not open up to me at all. The attraction was intense. I would be faithful to him and adore him. I think that I loved him. I asked him a question about his ex girlfriend because I thought that she was still in the picture and he COMPLETELY flipped out on me. I told him goodnight and did not speak to him for 4 days. He sent me text messages (this was a safe means of communication for him) saying that he assumes we won't be talking anymore and that he wishes me the best. It was hard being away from him but I felt like we was being too careful, overanalyzing me, and stringing me along. I returned his call on day 5. He flipped out on me again and said that I always assumed that something was going on with him the ex and that he was actively courting me. I said WHAT??? You're courting me?, yet you won't even open up to me. I didn't get a glimpse of emotion from him. He was so vague, indecisive, and wishy washy. I am the prettiest girl that he has ever dated and I am finishing law school. I wanted to love him forever. Now that I called him back he was back in control and broke it off. I don't understand.. I wanted to be everything to him. I miss him but the Sag pride won't allow me to contact him especially how he did it and all. He was so cold and almost like another person as if our 3 months meant nothing to him. However, I do miss the friendship. Do Pisces men ever come back? even as friends? Sags can forgive and forget but can a Pisces do that? And if he broke it off with me how can he consider himself the victim?

I think that things were going so good that he was looking for a reason to run as if we were destined to fail....
posted by:
Lisa
Atlanta
  • Re: HELP!!!! Pisces male broke this Sag girl's heart

    Sun, September 3, 2006 - 3:42 AM
    Hi Lisa do you know what his moon and rising signs are they may help to explain his behaviour

    I'm also sadgie involved "sort of " with a pisces guy who has a cancer moon & he does seem to act just like a cancer, barriers up & down, skirting around sensitive issues etc
    I too think he's involved with someone else but haven't asked directly (not brave enough! or could be my cancer rising) & when i've vaguely mentioned it he doesn't answer directly & we seem to be do a dance around the subject. At the moment i'm trying to be very patient, go with the flow & show him that i'm genuine.

    Have you read some of the sagittatius tribe sites there is a good one with a topic about pisces which may help.
    • Re: HELP!!!! Pisces male broke this Sag girl's heart

      Mon, September 4, 2006 - 8:37 AM
      His moon is in Aries but his rising is Scorpio. He is my first Pisces and I know that if we were to take it to the next level, he would love me like no other. The trick is getting him there.
      I have done research on Pisces males since the incident and the key is to be VERY patient. I should not have asked about the ex but my Venus is in Scorpio and I have a tendancy to be very jealous on the inside.
      • Re: HELP!!!! Pisces male broke this Sag girl's heart

        Sun, September 10, 2006 - 1:52 PM
        Hi Lisa
        How are you?

        Pisces guys do seem to have a reputation for breaking girls hearts, I can't say if he would ever come back because I don't know that many. The only one I know well (my nephew) was very very picky which girls he went out with & would use any reason to break up a relationship.

        Susan
      • Re: HELP!!!! Pisces male broke this Sag girl's heart

        Wed, September 20, 2006 - 7:11 AM
        I have dated a couple of Pisces guys and it seems that once they are gone, they are gone. I have to say that I am kind of like that. If that switch gets turned off, it is off for me for good. That isn't saying it is off for him, but that if that is the case it could be tough.

        I'm sure that his pride was hurt in a way when you didn't trust him. Is your distrust a reflection of maybe some of your past behavior? I'm asking this because I know I have been guilty of doing that myself.

        Most fishies that I know want to be dependent in a very independent way. We tend to swim to the next pond if we feel trapped or feel negative energy. Perhaps he felt you were being too dependent on him and that scared him?

        Personally, it would take a lot of convincing for me to date a Pisces guy again. My ex-husband was a Pisces Rising and I would take my time with even that configuration.
  • The Pisces guys I have been with have come back around if I've called. I could call them a year later, and they would still be just as caring. They hold a special place for people they have loved. It depends how deep his feeling were/are for you.
    • True for me, Bea...I hold a special place for everyone I've ever been with, and have gotten back together with some. Am single now, possibly will get together sometime in the future with one of my recent ex's when she is/we are ready.

      And yes, it IS the other way around sometimes, as someone said earlier in the thread...A Sag female broke this Pisces boy's heart in January.
      And yes, we were like twins.

      There's always wayyyyyyyyy more to the chart than the sun sign....remember peeps. Don't be too quick to box up the Pisces men until you've read/heard a reading about him or understand his chart en toto.
  • Hi Lisa. Astrology is a guide not a religion. He sounds like an emotional retard and considering that he doesn't seem to care if he hurt your feelings I'd assume he will not come back into your life. The word soulmate has been hijacked and has nothing to do with feelings. A soulmate is the other half of your soul. The mature soul is both male and female and is no longer incarnated in a physical body. Living with your soulmate would stop your spiritual growth as you would serve each other too well. Life is about learning from experience and becoming wise from applying that knowledge. Attraction is chemical and emotional. All sexual relationships are a substitute for the soulmate connection. I believe that the confidence that attracted you to him was actually because he doesn't really give a crap. Being a jerkoff often appears to be confidence. Move on. Teach a geek or nerd how "not" to act needy and you might find you have a good person you can rely on. Good luck. Sincerely, kahuna Lamaku.
    • hear hear, I totally agree with you, Lamaku

      You shouldn't let anyone mess with you, if they hurt you, they would apologise, unless they meant it.

      If they meant it ... remove yourself from their lives fast ... they are not worthy of you.

      Remember you can't change anyone, they are who they are.
  • wait a minute, before i can finish reading yours, ( i did start) i'm a pisces female and i cant begin to comprehend this sagg guy that i'm totally completely omg smitten with... i know nothing of sags...i'm getting an understanding from reading what you wrote...hey that pisces guy is remindindg me of me based on your 1st few sentences that i read...
  • Wow! I'm a Pisces boy and I was with a Sag girl for almost a year and the only reason we broke up was because I left the country.
    Once the first 2 months of differences were worked through, we became like a sexual brother and sister type. It was great!!!
    BUT!!!! On our first date we read eachother's charts and fit perfectly. I feel bad that Pisces get such a wishy washy rap! I'm solid
    and if anyone gets hurt, it's usually me, which is not so great.

    I don't know this guy, but he sounds like a triple Pisces which would be hard for anyone.
    Hang in there hon, but I will play devil's advocate as well, I NEVER go back.....
    Good luck

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