how to mend a broken heart?

topic posted Sun, May 28, 2006 - 3:19 AM by  offlinemermaid goddess
I would like some other Pisceans advice on how they deal with the end of a long-term relationship? I have come out of a 4-year relationship and after 5 months after the fact just when I thought I was getting over it, I remember things I loved about him/memories (probably a piscean thing) and still miss him like crazy to the point where I feel like I cannot give my heart to somebody else even if I wanted to. How do other Pisceans deal with it? and what works?
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mermaid goddess
Australia
  • moving forward with the gift of love ...

    Sun, May 28, 2006 - 12:06 PM
    dearest mermaid ~
    oh i so regret how your heart aches and want you to re-join your love/heart within yourself. to be able to return to your source and re-manifest your glory.
    a humble suggestion or possibility : when you are reminded of the love you shared , use it as an inspiration to create this anew for new people in your life- you have a beautiful gift of love and it is so wonderous and a miracle and so nurturing to others when you declare and share it. focus on gifting the miracle that you so resplendently are rather than focusing on what you don't have. i hope this may be of help to you.
    much love and caring for you. and take your time to repair and nurture yourself,
    caverly
  • Re: how to mend a broken heart?

    Mon, June 12, 2006 - 8:26 AM
    Mermaid,

    Give yourself permission to think about those things. If you don't they will pop up at the oddest times. Healing isn't like a constant line. It is more like a rollar coaster. When you have days that you do think about him allow yourself to feel with out feeling guilty or beating yourself up. After awhile you will realize that it has been longer and longer between the times that you think about him.

    It has only been 5 months. Don't be so hard on yourself. You will be able to love again, but give yourself time. Don't even think or worry about it right now, just heal and take care of you.

    I don't know if all Pisces do this, but it seems that we tend to mutate who we are when we are with someone. So, when we break up it is like we are lost for a bit until we find ourselves again. I know that I have done that in the past and now work on just being my authentic self. It feels much better than having to change directions with the wind.

    love, comfort, and some kleenex to dry your eyes.....
    Kim
  • Re: how to mend a broken heart?

    Mon, March 3, 2008 - 12:11 PM
    It takes time for us to get back on our feet once we lose the one we felt connection with. I feel like I was never really over my ex until I dated someone new, or occupy myself up to the point of exhaustion.

    We feel so damn much! So what works for me is to do what I didnt get to do when in a relationship. I flirt a whole lot! I also tried something new. Call that other guy you havent talked to in so long. We're sexy pisces, it comes from within- we just gotta believe it and put it out there!

    A heart break will only make you stronger next time around!

    Dont give up and dont call your ex! He might see you live your life fullest and realize he's lost something BIG and then he might be the one to call you, but by then you'll know what to do. (a typical pisces as myself would want to be friends- but it's just hurtful more in the end... its up to you)

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